enjoying an intimate session with their partner. They might have made
all the necessary efforts to satisfy their partner in b ed, but just
one little mistake can spoil all the fun! The nature of these after-s
ex mistakes hints that you were just waiting for s ex to get over so
you could indulge in some other non-s exual activity. Or in some
cases, it shows that you had something else running through your mind
while having sex.
Though these are absolutely unintentional acts that partners get
caught up in, these are often the terrible goof-ups that kill the s
exual mood. Also, couples fail to understand that switching off from
the s exual state of mind can leave the other partner highly irked.
Dr. Pushkar Gupta, a Chandigarh- based s ex therapist opines, "It is
very likely that partners who right away indulge in something else
after having s ex, might have performed s ex as a duty and not an act
of enjoyment. While there are several ways to keep up the mood even
after the actual s ex is over, some partners look for ways to remain
busy and thus they end up committing lesser known 'after-s ex'
mistakes." Dr. Amita Mishra, s ex and relationship expert states, "
After enjoying the s exual act, if a partner tries to get involved in
something not related to s ex, it surely makes the other partner feel
disowned. While there should be an effort to linger on with the s
exual feel even after the actual act is over, couples who deviate from
this mood are certainly affecting their s exual relationship." We list
some recurring 'after-s ex' mistakes that couples indulge in. So the
next time you get intimate, make sure you do not switch into something
else just after finishing the act. Let the mood linger on for enhanced
pleasure … Falling asl eep at once : Most couples come across this
problem where either one of the partners or both would fall asl eep
soon after having s ex.
It certainly is a big goof-up that can kill the charm of s ex. sl
eeping at once would not allow you to cherish your performance and
neither let you enjoy the mood with which you enjoyed that night of
passion. Making way for washroom : Enjoying a hot shower together can
be a great for eplay act, but rushing to the washroom right after a
hot ro mp is definitely not! While couples won't mind getting messy in
their s exual acts, but as soon as it's over, they make way to the
washroom to clean-up. It might sound okay, but they forget that the
other partner might still be enjoying that mood and want to have more
of it. Heading straight to the washroom makes the other partner feel
that there's been something unpleasing about the act, which can mar
your s exual bliss.
Calling a friend : This is another common mistake that couples face
after a steamy session. While it's obvious that none would call a
friend at odd hours to discuss official matters, so why can't a petty
talk wait till the morning? When it's time to enjoy s ex, it's indeed
a gaffe to keep your eyes and ears stuck onto your mobile phone
waiting for a message or keeping an eye on your missed calls. It makes
the other partner feel as if you're just not interested and thus ruins
all the fun.
Heading towards study or work : What couples think of during s ex
remains an unanswered question. Those who head towards study- room
right after a ro mp may just give the answer. Thinking books and
reading is indeed a s ex blunder! Like s exual moments, it's equally
important to enjoy the after-s ex pleasure. If you rather descend
towards your study, leaving behind your partner, it won't bring any
good to your s exual relationship.
If you prefer reading a book instead of cuddling and snuggling, you
are indeed inviting trouble into your s ex paradise. sleeping
separately : You might have a habit of sl eeping separately in guest b
edroom or on the terrace, but on a particular night when you've een
intimate with your partner, exceptions are allowed. After
